The Sims 4: Midlife Renaissance Challenge Overview
Introduction
I created this challenge because I’m 47 and about 4 years ago I began to feel the weight of the grind. I left teaching for the second time after my husband and I almost died due to medical bias. I began to think about what life would look like if I did what I enjoyed rather than what people wanted from me.
The Sims 4 is my "work shit out" game, so I began to play around with different challenges. But I wanted to play something that felt more hopeful and less like I was looking back on life with regret. So I asked, "what would you do if you could do anything you wanted?"
Middle age is about discovering who we are outside of the demands of society. It’s often when we begin to embrace our true selves and step away from the “work-horse” mentality that we discover happiness.
I created this challenge to explore various gameplay features of The Sims 4, while giving my Sims concrete goals to achieve with the sole purpose of becoming their true self.
Some things to know:
- If you are a streamer and/or Long Play video creator like me, there is an Season and Episode guide to help you plan your play.
- There are very detailed and explicit guidelines for other AuDHD/ADHDers who struggle to figure out what to do next when playing.
- I created a pretty impressive spreadsheet tracker using Google Sheets. I love a good spreadsheet.
- There are variations to the family creation and to the gameplay
- The only pack that is required is Get Together (you need it for clubs)
I hope you enjoy! Feel free to tag me on Threads or BlueSky if you are playing. You can also find me other places.
Use the Table of Contents below to navigate this because there is a lot of info.
Challenge Overview
The Renaissance Challenge is for The Sims 4 (although you can probably play with any Sims game or Inzoi). It's about second chances, personal growth, and living a life you want and not one others have dictated.
The challenge follows primarily your main Sim's journey, taking place over 50+ episodes across 5 seasons.
Your Primary Sim and their very supportive partner (see Variations below) are entering a new stage of life. After chasing their professional dreams and finding life wasn't what they had hoped, they sold their belongings and moved to a new town, purchasing a starter home and vowing to live a life more authentic and better aligned with their goals.
You will start with a modest home (under 20,000 simoleon lot value). Once you have purchased your lot, you can use cheats to set your household funds to the amount shown below depending on how many sims are living at home.
- 15,000 Simoleans (1 sim)
- 25,000 Simoleans (2 sims)
- 35,000 Simoleans (3 sims)
- 45, 000 Simoleans (4 sims)
- You do not get additional money for sims not living in the house (college students, adult children, etc.).
Be sure to document your journey through screenshots or storytelling. See the Tracking Your Progress section for more tips/ideas.
Challenge Completion
The Renaissance Challenge is complete when you have:
- Completed Core Goals
- Finished all 5 aspirations in order
- Completed Experiences
- Mastered your chosen skills
- Established strong community connections
- Achieved your Sim's personal transformation goals
- Created a lasting legacy
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Review the Goals for The Midlife Renaissance Challenge
Gameplay Tips
Create your Sim's Backstory using:
- Life Manager Mod to create a Family Tree
- Use Mc Command Center or another mod like Smart Sim Randomizer to generate skills/degrees so your sim is not starting from scratch.
- Turn off bills using MC Command Center or some other mod. Sims are only responsible for in-game purchases. Let's call that Simneversal Income.
Pack Recommendations
Essential Packs
- Base Game: Core gameplay and careers
- Get Together: Clubs and social activities
Highly Recommended
- Seasons: Realistic seasonal gameplay and festivals
- City Living: Careers and community activities
- Cottage Living and Enchanted by Nature: Gardening and simple living elements
- Get Famous: Recognition and achievement systems
Optional But Helpful
- Discover University: If including university-aged children
- Outdoor Retreat: For nature-focused activities
- Spa Day: Wellness and meditation elements
- Eco Lifestyle: Environmental consciousness themes
Options to Adjust Difficulty
(Choose based on difficulty preference)
- Skill Restriction: Can only learn skills that make sense for your Sim's story
- Career Limitation: Must stick with career choice for minimum number of episodes before changing
- Seasonal Gameplay: Use Seasons pack for realistic seasonal activities
- Limited Technology: Restrict use of certain modern conveniences for more authentic experience
Options for Family Variations
- Single Sim: Play with one Sim who has strong support from friends and chosen family
- With Adult Children: Include 1-2 young adult children who live independently (university, traveling, their own careers)
- University Child: One child studying at university (use occasional visits and video calls)
- Traveling Child: One child exploring the world (communicate through postcards/calls)
- Regular Communication: Schedule weekly family calls and care packages
- Family Events: Plan special reunions and celebrations
- Without Children: Focus on deep friendships and mentoring relationships in the community
- Chosen Family: Develop deep friendships that serve as family bonds
- Mentoring Focus: Take young Sims under your wing as surrogate children
- Community Family: Build strong relationships with neighbors and club members
- Legacy Through Others: Impact lives through teaching and community service
Tracking Your Progress
Key Metrics to Track
- Aspirations completed
- Skills mastered (aim for 3-5 at Level 10)
- Collections completed
- Friends made (target 15+ close relationships)
- Community contributions
- Major life events hosted
Recommended Tracking Methods
- Spreadsheet: Track goals, skills, relationships, and achievements (Make a Copy to edit)
Other ways to track your progress
- Photo Album: Document major moments and transformations with Tumblr, IG, or something else.
- Legacy Story Journal: Write about your Sim's thoughts and growth using a Family Tree App (I like My Family Tree)
- Community Sharing: Share progress with other challenge players
Read Next
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Goals Guide
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Streaming and Long Play Guide
Credits & Inspiration
This challenge was created by Kristina Daniele (aka Kristina Brooke (Mercurial Kay)) of My Mercurial Nature. Do not copy. You may revise but you must give credit to me even if you make significant changes to the challenge or tracker.
Do not remove branding, header, or any copyright information.
This challenge celebrates the idea that it's never too late to reinvent yourself and live authentically. Whether your Sim is starting over after a career disappointment, empty nest syndrome, or simply wanting more from life, the Renaissance Challenge offers a structured but flexible framework for meaningful gameplay.
Remember: The goal isn't perfection—it's growth, connection, and living true to your values.
Have fun, and welcome to your Renaissance!
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